Formal Table Setting

Formal Table Setting

Generally, the more formal the occasion, the more courses are
served, which of course means more flatware. There should be a
different set of utensils for each course: salad fork, dinner fork;
dinner knife, bread knife; and so on.

Some special dishes such as oysters have special utensils. These can
be served at the presentation of the food, but generally are placed
on the table in order of course. When oysters are served as an
appetizer for example, set the oyster fork to the right of the spoon.

Building from the basic set-up (dinner fork on the left of the
plate; knife to the right of the plate, dinner spoon to the right of
the knife):

On the left side of the plate put the salad fork to the left of the
dinner fork. On the right add a soup spoon to the outside of the
dinner spoon if soup will be served. Place the soup bowl above the
soup spoon and to the right. The bread plate goes to the left, about
two inches above the fork. Place the butter knife across the bread
plate at a diagonal, upper left to lower right. Small salad plates go
to the left and a little below the bread plate. Dessert spoons, or in
some cases knife and fork, are placed about an inch above the top of
the plate with the handle(s) on the right side.

The largest glass on the table is the water glass which goes on the
right side above the dinner knife. It may be filled and iced when
guests arrive or left empty to be filled at each diner’s request.
If wine or some other beverage is served, set the appropriate glass
to the right and a little down from the water glass.

B-man :wink:

In this hurried world we live in, people tend to forget the “niceties” of life. We still a proper table when the family is gathered. My daughters do the same with their families.

Thank you for reminding us that a little graciousness is welcome.